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You also forgot to mention, must accompany them go shopping. Knn, waiting rm outside waiting for hours. If they ask you how's the clothing. If you said along the lines like not nice in anyway. Knn, get offended. Basically, as this goes on for years. One eventually becomes henpecked. In short, if a couple has nothing common in hobbies/interest to begin with. It's just a waste of time to begin with. The sex can only bind your intimacy/romance in the relationship for so long. In fact, I can tell that many husbands/wives look so lonely but not alone. I rather be the latter. Of course, one must find some purpose to occupy themselves. Any man reading this. If you don't want to have legitimate children, don't get married in the 1st place. Modern marriage don't really benefit men these days. Of coz, if you can find a woman who clicks with you and share same interests. That's the BEST. Just don't go rushing to sign the dotted within the 1st 2 years. You may regret later on.
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Hi TS, I've faced some of the issues you have described before, and for me, it was primarily driven by the lack of sleep and physical tiredness. As some bros have suggested, try getting in some exercise - it does assist to destress and reduce insomnia. It was what worked for me and I did feel my sex drive increase. I hope this helps.
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more often then not is the internal boy temperature. so can try drinking more water throughout the day, a glass before sleep. drinking a glass before sleep also helps calm you down for sleep.
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this i see more and more frequent. now have thai wife trend. feedback is they take better care of the husbands.
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TS, want to meet up for kopi and talk more?
I'm happily married for 11 years and there are many transitions a couple makes in a relationship after marriage. Firstly, I think you are feeling quite normal in terms of your thoughts and worries etc. Second, its good you are aware there are issues with yourself such as the porn watching and desensitization with your current gf (and i assume wife to be). Thirdly, you acknowledge it all and chose to seek forum help here. I applaud your open honesty. There is no quick fix to relationships, many small acts and efforts daily to build the relationship. Main issue to fix is better sex life with your partner. I feel for girls who are lower in sex drive, it takes building up. Foreplay is a whole day event from compliments, encouragements, teasing, hand-holding, kisses and long hugs, skin to skin contact and gentle caresses, whispers, striptease, and making her body your wonderland. Alot happens in the mind, not just physical sensation. As some bros also suggested, try to stop masturbating/porn watching. Engage in proper romancing, and find the right buttons to push for each other. During my early years of marriage, my wife's button was simply blow drying her hair and giving her back rubs (invested in some relaxing essential oils for that). For me? I took months to encourage her to go braless outdoor and it excites me whenever she does so. The sex thereafter will be very good of course. I first started with requesting for her to remove her bra when we are outside, then choosing clothes for her to try out going braless (standby a jacket or cardigan for her to cover up), and slowly work from there. Nowadays she don't even wear a bra to work (helps that we always shop for clothes that wont show her pokies), and I still give her back rubs too. It takes time to "groom" each other sexually, its not like porn straight away look, lust, fuck. If you love your partner, romance her and desire after her. Your mind will handle the rest after that, auto mari kita, and she will slowly but surely reciprocate. Dont aim for ejaculation, aim for emancipation. Set each other free to explore your sexuality together. |
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Fact is quite simple. If girl don't give often, whats the outcome? Guy sure one day will go outside to find. The relationship will be strained. Its easier to just exit and let my ex go, then I go find some other girl long term. Makes no sense to tahan and still go out find. She even told me I should find a girl that won't refuse me. My thought was, if the girl give me regularly (not like every night, but few times a week), gifts and allowance also can negotiate to give. All these nagging thoughts like no sex will come back and haunt like a spectre. Guy is still an animal afterall.... with hunter like instincts.
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I know myself too well. If I cannot have what I want, someday I would still "eat out". Its pointless to persist and ultimately... its inevitable.
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Thankfully written her off permanently after she told me she needed to think over our relationship. It's a very simple problem. She ask more then I am not getting what I want.... That is companionship. It was duty to her. |
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But then again this kind of girl mentality very troublesome to handle, like small girl never grow up everything friend friend friend must follow their friend. I also dulan |
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That day she tried to defend herself by telling me she came to conclusion herself. Its still as good as a decision from her friends. Quite sad. She will live in someone else's shadows for a long time to come. Living to the expectations of her friends' values and beliefs will define her. I also find it hard to blame her cos their nationality is like that. The people there embrace socially accepted beliefs and values, rather than being ready to stand out for their own. Even myself, I sound totally alien, though I could converse her native language. Quite sad at the end of the day. Its not how I want live life. I believe doing what counts, rather than what matters to others. After all, we only have this much time in this world, so why give a F to what everyone else say? Every guy/ gal have their 2 cents. Listening to all these 2 cents amount to nothing, because we still need have our beliefs in what is really us. My honest 2 cents.
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