Sexless Relationship

[thomas88]

Hey guys, let me tell you....a sexless relationship if it's between a husband and wife is a very unhealthy one but it's definitely ok if it's bf and gf. Both party can be blamed for the ones to stray as the 2 of you should look into the real problem behind this sexless relationship and work it out.

I've came out of this sexless relationship with my wife for a little more than one and a half year. It's a long story but we managed to work it out and now we're back to a normal healthy sex life. But believe me.......Throughout the sexless period, I've never for once had any sex be it a FL, pros or any. I just kept myself occupied with fish keeping.

[Dickster]

Thank who to all bros and sisters here who have given me valuable advices regardless if they are stinging or pleasant to the ears . I guess this has being an avoidable problem . Lol why guys reach the peak of their lust eariler that female? if both can reach teh same time then good liao.. lolz. i apreciate ur comments, i wil try to up ur point as soon as 24 hr mark is over. so gusy pls. give me some time.


Thanks
Regards
To bonk or not to?

[Dickster]

wao Thomas88 are u born in teh year 88?
If so , u are my idol lolz.!!!!!

Just joking..

[thomas88]

Originally Posted by Dickster

wao Thomas88 are u born in teh year 88?
If so , u are my idol lolz.!!!!!

Just joking..

Hahaha.......no lah, 88 is "farth farth" meh. I'm already a 42y old man very soon got to use a walking stick.

[angie II]

plz.. brudderr.. b4 u fart say excuse me 1st!

[medicheng]

I got a gf of quite long liao... but only sex in the start of the relationship... now... bo liao.... got hug can laugh liao... sian

[Dickster]

hmmm bro medicheng , sex at the beginning ? now nothing can be done ah ? why is this so ? did u anger her in any way ot nor?




UP FiReWoRkS bro liao , giev me another 24 hr while i slowly up one by one.

Thanks
regards
To bonk or not to bonk

[SassySammy]

Bro Dickster, i think u seem quite gian to eat outside. Pardon me, but r u tryin to seek a sort of approval from bros n sis here ie give yrself an excuse/reason tt u can go outside to eat, now tt yr gf doesnt wan to sextisfy u? This way, u can tell yrself, it's only normal tt u eat outside, so tt yr guilt will lessen?

it's yr more than 6 yrs relationship at stake. only u can judge/predict what will happen if she finds out. but personally (if it does matter lol), still hope u two can work things out heheh if suay suay a 'not bad guy' comes along at the same time that she finds out abt the infidelity, then sure jialat jialat.

[Alami]

Bro Dickster, some times when gf/wf is stressed either by work or the relationship, there will be no sex. There was a time when my bussiness was short of money; my wf was very stressed out and there was no sex for more than 6 months!

Since you already know your problem, its just a matter of getting your gf/parents to be agreeable. Good luck!

[sinbad01]

Qn for bro dickster: you got ur own place now? Room with attached bathroom to stay?

I also in ur situation actually. I figured that in the earlier yrs, perhaps they dun mind having sex all the time and at the weird places. But most of the ladies after a while esp when they grow up may not appreciate not having a proper place to rest and have sex. Me for example still have to share room with my brother, so i dun blame her for not wanting to have sex. Bring her out say go hotel also she not comfy. So lan lan now waiting for house to come bah Hope tt might help some of the bros who are having such probs too.

[rickytay]

Hey bro dickster i think the first question you should ask is, whether she is the right one for you and if she is the one you wanna be with. If not then maybe it's time to leave her.

If she is the one, then you should sort out things with her.

Keep in mind you live for yourself not for anyone.

[XX26]

Originally Posted by Acerpac

Confirm cannot last! Human got needs and wants mah. Sex is not everything in a relationship, but it's a important part in a relationship.

I agree w above. no sex = no happy. why do you want to commit yourself in a no happy r/s?

Its human nature that if you cannot get what you want here, you get it elsewhere. agree?

cheers

[Dickster]

well , never a thought that i would want to have a fling or eat outside. to me there are only two routes .. one is to end it , the other to resolve the sexless issue.and yup my room was those with attached birthroom and it is air conditioned , should not be an issue of comfy place or not. I am sorry to know that i was thought to be seeking approval from here to onz outside, buut i am just asking for a penny for our bros' and siss' thoughts so as to make a better decision on my next choice. Sorry if i offended anyone.
Good day



Thanks
Regards.
To bonk or not to bonk

[SassySammy]

no la u didnt offend anyone maybe she wans a massage b4 sex? like adam sandler's wife in the movie 'Click' lol.. damn good show. i think having yr own room with an attached bathroom helps alot.. i sleep with my mum lo.. zero privacy..

Regards too.
Dont bonk. Bonk yr gf oni.

[*FiReWoRkS*]

Originally Posted by SassySammy

.. i sleep with my mum lo.. zero privacy..

you still sleeping with your mom???how come??

are you still very young or??