Found out that wife been cheating

[BlueDotPower]

Originally Posted by AnnieYJL

Is she flirting or cheating?
Flirting = just talking sensitive stuff. Treasing
Cheating = presume you saw her having some form of sex with men?

I would say 99% of the married men flirt with women in one way or another so why can’t women flirt with men? But if you see penetration and caught both of them, then that’s cheating

Not really easy to witness cheating unless suay suay come home to see them fucking

[AnnieYJL]

Originally Posted by BlueDotPower

Not really easy to witness cheating unless suay suay come home to see them fucking

Then how to say cheating? Through messages?

[lipe]

bro whitebull

return 19 points.

Originally Posted by whitebull

I doubt so, if you really that magnanimous. i salute u

[Hardstick15by5]

Originally Posted by whitebull

I am not a male-chauvinist but 'keeping one eye open and one eye shut' to save marriage usually applies to the wife.

Maybe kimsiew bro is also not a male-chauvinist like you, this doesn't apply to just his wife.

but yeah, if wife already has a past, wild and fucked around before, and if me as the husband ain't no saint, we just have to wake up and realise our true nature. Life gets easier to live, easier to embrace.

Acceptance.

[Hardstick15by5]

Originally Posted by lipe

bro whitebull

return 19 points.

keep up with the hard work. you will be a millionaire soon!

[whitebull]

Originally Posted by Hardstick15by5

Maybe kimsiew bro is also not a male-chauvinist like you, this doesn't apply to just his wife.

but yeah, if wife already has a past, wild and fucked around before, and if me as the husband ain't no saint, we just have to wake up and realise our true nature. Life gets easier to live, easier to embrace.

Acceptance.

Either your comprehension of england is poor or you have an eyesight problem

Which part did i mentioned Bro KimSiew, a male-chauvinist?

I did not say 'one eye open one eye shut' applies 'just' to the wife but 'usually'.

I'm not talking about the wife's colourful past or before marriage but now, if the wife still 'eats out' and 'fuck around' would he 'shut one eye', carry-on as normal to save the marriage?

[covidd]

interesting story

[rihnohorn]

Waiting for more updates

[kissmyaxe]

Camping for more

[Hardstick15by5]

Originally Posted by whitebull

Either your comprehension of england is poor or you have an eyesight problem

Which part did i mentioned Bro KimSiew, a male-chauvinist?

I did not say 'one eye open one eye shut' applies 'just' to the wife but 'usually'.

I'm not talking about the wife's colourful past or before marriage but now, if the wife still 'eats out' and 'fuck around' would he 'shut one eye', carry-on as normal to save the marriage?

That escalated quickly. Wah bro, which part of my response is indicating that you think that it ONLY applies and not usually? Which part of my response says that you say he’s a chauvinist?

I’m suggesting that maybe kimsiew bro is like you. I didn’t say that you say that he’s a male chauvinist who cannot take it if his partner or wife sleeps around.

I didn’t say that his wife has a past and just that. I’m saying is, if wife and ourselves have a past, and tried to change and really cannot change, focus on the partnership then, if they feel that the partnership is beneficial for life, not being alone and taking care of each other, etc. It might be easier for some.

you misunderstood me, this is what I meant.

Maybe Kim siew is as NON male chauvinist as you, and can accept that method. It’s not a one way street for him, like you. Very open and nurturing.


misunderstanding, not personal attack on you ok. paiseh