Well, we could all get together.. go to a club with our wives ourselves.. then we meet each other and go... wah tom/dick/harry.. you also here with your wife ah... long time no see since army/work/book club whatever days.... then all get together under 1 table.... then say ...must drink to celebrate and hope the gals gel and drink too and after quite sometime, when everyone(Actually the gals) abit high, we go dance floor with our wives and then later go toilet leaving our partner dancing with another guy.. and then see how it goes lah.. as what happens on the dancefloor stays on the dancefloor ... i know this sounds crude and abit dumb.. but unless someone else have a better idea...
Quite a good idea, where got crude and dumb? If you don't try, it will never happen right?
If I have partner I'll join you too!
i am on the same boat with u guys!!
always wanted wifey to be touch at clubs or a guy to yoni her.....
whenever this thoughs come into my mind i wll have a full erection..
maybe sex life too boring that i need something kinky lol
can any experts help out as in how to convince wifey to go into all these
so far on tried soft swing many years back
cheers
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Originally Posted by fringe929
Nice recommendation... I'm trying not to scare the wife away.... as my situation is a bit delicate for she is not yet a "willing party" yet.. trying to get her into the right environment and if things happen, it happens... clubs with alcohol usually does wonders too
Guys, its not good to push the boundary if your partner is not completely ready. A huge huge part of the lifestyle is trust. For example, she needs to trust that you will defend her boundaries if some guys get too pushy (very common). She also needs to trust that you know the boundaries and will not go beyond them with another lady.
Communication is very important and both parties must be ready and willing. When it happens, it will be at the point of no return... we are talking about jealousy and insecurity issues here (both for you and her) and you know how ugly those can get.
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Guys, its not good to push the boundary if your partner is not completely ready. A huge huge part of the lifestyle is trust. For example, she needs to trust that you will defend her boundaries if some guys get too pushy (very common). She also needs to trust that you know the boundaries and will not go beyond them with another lady.
Communication is very important and both parties must be ready and willing. When it happens, it will be at the point of no return... we are talking about jealousy and insecurity issues here (both for you and her) and you know how ugly those can get.
Guys, its not good to push the boundary if your partner is not completely ready. A huge huge part of the lifestyle is trust. For example, she needs to trust that you will defend her boundaries if some guys get too pushy (very common). She also needs to trust that you know the boundaries and will not go beyond them with another lady.
Communication is very important and both parties must be ready and willing. When it happens, it will be at the point of no return... we are talking about jealousy and insecurity issues here (both for you and her) and you know how ugly those can get.
Very good analysis here, understand the situation for a better approach, upz.
Hoping to meet...i feel its quite erotic.. meeting other couples, drink together, everyone flirt abit here and there with other ppl partners..
Me and my wife and another couple friend was staying in a private villa. On our last night after some drinks, we decided to swim naked, surprise the girls were game for it. We ended up with our own spouse at different corners of the pool fucking. Eversince,, my wife is asking when our next villa holiday.
Me and my wife and another couple friend was staying in a private villa. On our last night after some drinks, we decided to swim naked, surprise the girls were game for it. We ended up with our own spouse at different corners of the pool fucking. Eversince,, my wife is asking when our next villa holiday.
Good that the girls decided to join in. One question: is the girl of the other couple chio?
Me and my wife and another couple friend was staying in a private villa. On our last night after some drinks, we decided to swim naked, surprise the girls were game for it. We ended up with our own spouse at different corners of the pool fucking. Eversince,, my wife is asking when our next villa holiday.
There is a couple I know I’d love to do this with but don’t know how to initiate it haha maybe try this method. He’s ang moh and wife is indo and I’ve seen her in bikini a few times, and I want to try but he’s a friend so wouldn’t dare without his consent haha.