How to make him love me?

[Hungerlove18]

Long story short.
I found out my hub got an acct here n he went to find some fl. I keep it quiet for few years. Till recently, i found out he been scretly WA. I throw the beans out on the table for the pass few yr secret i knew. I ask for divorce. But then i regret cos i willingly to start all over again. He tell me he is guilty to face me. We hv 2 kids btw. Both below 6 yrs. How to make my hub love me again. I still love him.

[larue]

You cannot make a man love you. A man cannot make a woman love him.

If you feel your husband is really regretful and willing to change for you, go for couples counselling to work out your issues. It really helps to discuss these things with a professional.

Not all are professional.

And what is secretly WA?

[bfreemen]

Lessons here . First lesson foc

[Strike8Million]

Well. If you strike and win S$8million let him know but keep the money to yourself

[Hungerlove18]

We have a talk. He tells me part of him wa to mk thing work part of him afraid. He no longer have those love for me. He doesnt even feel like having sex now. So i guess he dont love me. I know it silly why i still want him. He ask me the same question too. I told him it love. I dont depend on him fiancially. But i really want the love n sex. Haha... he commitment something he done n nw he too ashamed to face me. But i feel is he cant face himself. Since i willingly to let go n restart.

[Hungerlove18]

Originally Posted by larue

You cannot make a man love you. A man cannot make a woman love him.

If you feel your husband is really regretful and willing to change for you, go for couples counselling to work out your issues. It really helps to discuss these things with a professional.

Not all are professional.

And what is secretly WA?

Secretly whatapps.

[babe90]

Originally Posted by Hungerlove18

We have a talk. He tells me part of him wa to mk thing work part of him afraid. He no longer have those love for me. He doesnt even feel like having sex now. So i guess he dont love me. I know it silly why i still want him. He ask me the same question too. I told him it love. I dont depend on him fiancially. But i really want the love n sex. Haha... he commitment something he done n nw he too ashamed to face me. But i feel is he cant face himself. Since i willingly to let go n restart.

Hi,

I doubt he will feel remorseful as now he just wants gain your sympathy to his actions. Trust me if married already he still go find FLs, what makes u think when he is back to you he will not find already.. If he really regrets what he had done in the first place he wouldn't find FLs when married. What for waste money on them while can take the money and spend on you and the kids go for nice holiday, eat nice food or can go shopping together. And you can see the FLs rates.... So expensive and he willing take the money and throw to some one he does not know and is only for a short time rather than to give the money to his wife and family.

[kt88_2]

Like this case ,can give up already, very hard to carry on,no loe or liking

[larue]

Originally Posted by Hungerlove18

We have a talk. He tells me part of him wa to mk thing work part of him afraid. He no longer have those love for me. He doesnt even feel like having sex now. So i guess he dont love me. I know it silly why i still want him. He ask me the same question too. I told him it love. I dont depend on him fiancially. But i really want the love n sex. Haha... he commitment something he done n nw he too ashamed to face me. But i feel is he cant face himself. Since i willingly to let go n restart.

I think it would help for you all to see a counselor together if you're willing to try and turn things around, and he hasn't completely decided that he wants out.

But even if he is willing to go, prepare yourself for the possibility that your marriage might be beyond repair if he then decides for sure he wants to leave .

[ilovepantyhose]

爱一个人，可以有一千个理由

不爱一个人，只有一个理由

[Alisa]

Originally Posted by ilovepantyhose

爱一个人，可以有一千个理由

不爱一个人，只有一个理由

i believe this ,also faith comes times goes.

[Shadow_warrior]

if you can show him what he was looking for in the FL or GF or 3rd party

you can win his heart back

[Max77]

Just do nothing.

Ya do nothing.

Dont do anything at all.

Thats about for him.

Now start think about urself.
-How u gonna move forward IF the ending is without him. Like make urself prettier, slimmer and facials etc
-How u gonna live ur live more meaningful example enrichment class and social clubs etc. Fitness club perhaps?
-Start to do what u have been always wanted to do all these years while sacrificing ur time for the family AND actually go ahead and start doing them.

Im not saying U totally abandon the kids and house. Just take back the time for HIM and give it back to YOURSELF.

Who knows, he might find u interesting again. Maybe by there will be many people finding you interesting. Then from there, make a choice again.

[dohansp]

Serve him BBBJ. He will like it

[mebbel]

Originally Posted by dohansp

Serve him BBBJ. He will like it

You give BBBJ all the time?