Ever fall in love with a massage girl

[pikachu007]

I think one way to force myself not to think of the ML is assuming that the ML is also sweet talking with many many many other customers at the same time. Then will think not worth it.

[sebastian939]

Originally Posted by Maestus

You seemed experienced bro. For all 8 years that I have been to MLs it is only until end of last year that I fallen into this, with the thoughtthat this might not happen to me. Never say never. My personal take will be to try your very best to stay away from the emotional portion.

Logical part. You should move on. But it’s very difficult. That’s why don’t fall in in the first place

[sexlover6969]

Originally Posted by Maestus

It happened for quite sometime actually but i guess i chose not to believe in my suspicion until she told me recently. Am struggling to stay or move on. The logical part of me says move while the emotional part says to stay. Might need some time to really pull myself together.

I feel you as I am.also going thru this process....

[Maestus]

Originally Posted by sebastian939

Logical part. You should move on. But it’s very difficult. That’s why don’t fall in in the first place

Hahaha hence the emotional part of me says stay lor... think to truly abstain is to totally get out of this thing entirely... else there will always be another case waiting to happen... again, that might be hard as well...

[sladang]

Originally Posted by pikachu007

I think one way to force myself not to think of the ML is assuming that the ML is also sweet talking with many many many other customers at the same time. Then will think not worth it.

Assuming?
it's not an assumption, it's the truth

It's true that ALL MLs are sweet talking wif many many many other customers at the same time

Otherwise what else are they doing, tio bo? ..

[pikachu007]

Originally Posted by sladang

Assuming?
it's not an assumption, it's the truth

It's true that ALL MLs are sweet talking wif many many many other customers at the same time

Otherwise what else are they doing, tio bo? ..

That’s true hahahahaha

[alexsptrader]

Truth is all these ML offer shared GFE services for thousands of men . Just like the car sharing or bike sharing services we have. A man's dream in life should never be to share his dream girl with other men. If we need a release by all means.. but dont waste time & money thinking a ML will fall for you. If you are rich enough take her off the market & own her if not just release & get off the bike

[sebastian939]

Originally Posted by alexsptrader

Truth is all these ML offer shared GFE services for thousands of men . Just like the car sharing or bike sharing services we have. A man dream in life should never be to share his dream girl with other men. If we need a release by all means.. but dont waste time & money thinking a ML will fall for you. If you are rich enough take her off the market & own her if not just release & get off the bike

Wah your statement totally nailed it. well done 👏🏻

[alexsptrader]

Originally Posted by sebastian939

Wah your statement totally nailed it. well done 👏🏻

We have a lot of young clueless cheongsters & also seasoned players who sometimes foolishly feel they have met the right girl late. These ML just provide shared GF services . Full stop.

[deathnitez]

Originally Posted by Maestus

You seemed experienced bro. For all 8 years that I have been to MLs it is only until end of last year that I fallen into this, with the thoughtthat this might not happen to me. Never say never. My personal take will be to try your very best to stay away from the emotional portion.

Personal experience just have fun while it last....I have fun with some ML until I have dinner with their family introduce as friend. Even their children know me. Usually ML I am this close with all is done liao and become fwb kinda relationship. Emotional part is definitely there one just learn that anytime you need to forego and go on to the next target to feel less emo.

[RedFurBull]

Originally Posted by deathnitez

Personal experience just have fun while it last....I have fun with some ML until I have dinner with their family introduce as friend. Even their children know me. Usually ML I am this close with all is done liao and become fwb kinda relationship. Emotional part is definitely there one just learn that anytime you need to forego and go on to the next target to feel less emo.

This is the issue: write that time can be super siao sa, but in reality, when the ML meet a richer guy (it’s a matter of time), a guy who is fresher/ younger/ more fun than you (also a matter of time), then it won’t be so siao sa anymore.

We all have been through this journey, if we are not screwed we won’t even be here on SBF, so dun even give ideas to younger people than they can be fwb or fuck buddies with ML, it’s a trap and u will not be that siao sa when u realise that all the money spent (without this u won’t even get to ur stage) n time squandered, u end up with nothing. U will be screwed upside down, but still u need to put up a siao sa front cos if not, u really have nothing else left.

[deathnitez]

Originally Posted by RedFurBull

This is the issue: write that time can be super siao sa, but in reality, when the ML meet a richer guy (it’s a matter of time), a guy who is fresher/ younger/ more fun than you (also a matter of time), then it won’t be so siao sa anymore.

We all have been through this journey, if we are not screwed we won’t even be here on SBF, so dun even give ideas to younger people than they can be fwb or fuck buddies with ML, it’s a trap and u will not be that siao sa when u realise that all the money spent (without this u won’t even get to ur stage) n time squandered, u end up with nothing. U will be screwed upside down, but still u need to put up a siao sa front cos if not, u really have nothing else left.

Yeah to do this make sure you have the monetary ability. And spend within your limits. So far not all ML are like what you say but again 95% is like what you say. Bang and go is the best rule but if you got ability do it within your limits. The fun is really different everyone got their stroke of playing. Like in real life play or be played. 20 yr plus exp in ktv and ml life initially I got played but slowly learn to play and have many interesting experience. Some was even life threatening hahaha....

[Maestus]

Originally Posted by RedFurBull

This is the issue: write that time can be super siao sa, but in reality, when the ML meet a richer guy (it’s a matter of time), a guy who is fresher/ younger/ more fun than you (also a matter of time), then it won’t be so siao sa anymore.

We all have been through this journey, if we are not screwed we won’t even be here on SBF, so dun even give ideas to younger people than they can be fwb or fuck buddies with ML, it’s a trap and u will not be that siao sa when u realise that all the money spent (without this u won’t even get to ur stage) n time squandered, u end up with nothing. U will be screwed upside down, but still u need to put up a siao sa front cos if not, u really have nothing else left.

Haha... Your last statement is so true... I wasn't really looking for FWB or similar but more like a real gf. Call me nuts even though I am fully aware of all these potential hiccups that comes with it.
Initially I was like bro Oldbox thinking, to have a regular whom I am comfortable

[RedFurBull]

Originally Posted by Maestus

Haha... Your last statement is so true... I wasn't really looking for FWB or similar but more like a real gf. Call me nuts even though I am fully aware of all these potential hiccups that comes with it.
Initially I was like bro Oldbox thinking, to have a regular whom I am comfortable

Yes u need to have some principles, so that u follow those codes to guide you through this slippery path. Well if u can get off the path that’s the best. But if u can’t, then go by the code.

I remember once I was pretty nice to an ML, she’s not giving much but ask for high price, I still oblige as I can still afford it. Every morning when I get the morning greetings in a picture, I’ll reply with words treating that she’s saying good morning to me (though I know it’s not) - that’s part of the code - dun ask if u do not want to get hurt. One fine day, she blurted: business is not so great, I think tmrw onwards I better send more good morning advertisements
I just smiled n said: of course you should.
I have never gone back to support her since that day - that is also part of the code. Do not be the sucker when u r told that u r the sucker

[Maestus]

Originally Posted by RedFurBull

Yes u need to have some principles, so that u follow those codes to guide you through this slippery path. Well if u can get off the path that’s the best. But if u can’t, then go by the code.

I remember once I was pretty nice to an ML, she’s not giving much but ask for high price, I still oblige as I can still afford it. Every morning when I get the morning greetings in a picture, I’ll reply with words treating that she’s saying good morning to me (though I know it’s not) - that’s part of the code - dun ask if u do not want to get hurt. One fine day, she blurted: business is not so great, I think tmrw onwards I better send more good morning advertisements
I just smiled n said: of course you should.
I have never gone back to support her since that day - that is also part of the code. Do not be the sucker when u r told that u r the sucker

Any codes to recommend? 😅