Marrying A Thai ger

[norice]

Brothers,

This is an excellent forum to share ideas and give advices on how we can meet and date nonworking college educated Thai girls for possible longterm relationship. Dating agencies, internet and nightclubs are fine but we need advice on how to meet those girls in a normal environment. I was told by several Thais that networking is the best and sure method, if you want to meet a good girl.

My story:

About 8 - 9 years ago, I met an attractive Palazzo Hotel concierge and she gave us a tour of the hotel and its amenities. During next 20 minutes, we clicked and I made her laugh several times and we felt very comfortable with each other. Next day, my friend told me she couldn't stop talking bout me so I guess, she kind of like me. But I didn't pursue her but we still became friends. Every year, I usually give her several boxes of chocolate candies from Hawaii. When I retire in Bangkok, permanently within 23 months, I shall ask her out if she is still single. If she is married, I will ask her if she has any friends that I could meet. This is a perfect example of networking in Bangkok. Since she knows I'm a nice guy, she will not hesitate to introduce her single friends to me for possible longterm relationship. That's my goal and I hope the plan works out and will be benificial! Also, she is college educated and able to speak fluent English, Chinese and Thai! I'm willing to give her more expensive gift from Hawaii but I feel uncomfortable because she could be married by now! I don't know if she is single or married. Should I bring more expensive gifts to her? Need advice!

[xilverzap]

Originally Posted by norice

Should I bring more expensive gifts to her? Need advice!

Well, my take is there is NO need for expensive gifts for her. Gifts are fine. But do they need to be expensive to attract a girl's attention?? I think "its the thought that counts" still hold some truths even in Thailand. Get her something simple and meaningful would be much better I guess.


Just my thoughts (counts?)
xilver

[xilverzap]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

wah u no fool ard meh lol. oh oh lol not fool ard only liang many many puss lol

i no expert in this field la. i also kanna bbq lei i kanna bbq till cooked liao lei.

Sorry, I am not able to "liang" anyone anymore... I not print $$ one. hahaha

Maybe no expert but your experience certainly enriches us bros when it comes to wether or not we going be bbq, smoked, steamed or microwaved. I guess you have the spot on eye when bros come here to share their sad stories when they start KC with any thai ladies.

xilver

[vmtech]

Originally Posted by xilverzap

Well, my take is there is NO need for expensive gifts for her. Gifts are fine. But do they need to be expensive to attract a girl's attention?? I think "its the thought that counts" still hold some truths even in Thailand. Get her something simple and meaningful would be much better I guess.


Just my thoughts (counts?)
xilver

Agreed hehe it's the thought that counts, but den.. she has to understand that meaning and in your same frequency.. if not.. den different story lo :P

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by norice

Should I bring more expensive gifts to her? Need advice!

i agree with what bro vm n xilver just said. another thing dont ever give all ur money to ur girl be it a non working or working girl when u are retired there. it is safer to be with u then giving to another person to safe keep for u especially ur love one.

[norice]

Xil&VM,

Not too expensive, rather than giving her chocolate candies over the years, I want to give her makeup, perfume or watch with my face on it! ha ha ha ha Seriously, I want to give her that's more meaningful, maybe vitamins.

[xilverzap]

Originally Posted by norice

Xil&VM,

Not too expensive, rather than giving her chocolate candies over the years, I want to give her makeup, perfume or watch with my face on it! ha ha ha ha Seriously, I want to give her that's more meaningful, maybe vitamins.

Hi Bro

Well, if its not too expensive then it's fine. Maybe when you meet her you can buy her chocolates for her AGAIN and tell her how sweet she is that you cannot think of anything else to get for her. ^o^ (old school.. haha)...

Watch with your face on it would be funny one. There are some stuff that guy are NOT suppose to get for thai girls. Well, these are what I heard from some FLs or bros... Perfume, slippers or shoes and I cannot remember the rest.. Sorry I am getting old.. hahaha.. I do know that it is a NO NO for Chinese to buy clock for one another. I am not sure if this applies to thais?

We are all envious you'd be retiring in Thailand in the coming future. Hmmmm... isnt Hawaii quite happening too?? Bet the girls there are beautiful and tanned like those in the movies?? Haahaha...

1 last question. May I ask, if you dont mind. Why do you choose to retire in Thailand and not any other places?

xilver

[Exciter101]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

If she is wearing one, then she might have a boyfriend or already married.

Does wearing of ring on either hand finger mean anything?
Like wear right hand index finger, any meaning?
Or wear lift hand index finger?
Hope u can shed some light.
Many thks.

[GLHunter]

Originally Posted by xilverzap

Watch with your face on it would be funny one. There are some stuff that guy are NOT suppose to get for thai girls. Well, these are what I heard from some FLs or bros... Perfume, slippers or shoes and I cannot remember the rest.. Sorry I am getting old.. hahaha.. I do know that it is a NO NO for Chinese to buy clock for one another. I am not sure if this applies to thais?
xilver

Who is it abt the perfume? i bought some for my gf & she neber says anything leh.. ?

[Exciter101]

Originally Posted by GLHunter

Who is it abt the perfume? i bought some for my gf & she neber says anything leh.. ?

Long time no see, how r u?
Things going well, i hope....

[xilverzap]

Originally Posted by GLHunter

Who is it abt the perfume? i bought some for my gf & she neber says anything leh.. ?

Well, when I was with my previous GF in Bkk, everytime she asks me to get her perfume from our airport she insist that she pays for it. It does not matter that she does not pay the full price for it but as long she pays for it.
Then when her good friend, another girl came over, her friend tried that perfume on herself and her friend had to pay her 1baht for usage. She told me then that it would make 2 person seperate if perfume is bought and given as a gift or lent to use for fun. Anyway, that was what I experienced with perfume thing.

Shoe is considered as a "lowly" item as it relates to a lady's feet. They think it is not good for a man to buy shoe for a lady.

But this taboos are practiced by some thai ladies only. I also encountered those that dont bother. As long as you are paying they are happy. hahaha

xilver

[xilverzap]

Originally Posted by Exciter101

Does wearing of ring on either hand finger mean anything?
Like wear right hand index finger, any meaning?
Or wear lift hand index finger?
Hope u can shed some light.
Many thks.

Nowadays, wearing rings on any fingers dont really mean much, except the wedding finger. Anywhere else I guess its just jewelery and does not mean anything. Wearing lots of GOLD rings and bracelets and necklace... ah... that means this girl like to show their village people that she have made it.

xilver

[vmtech]

Originally Posted by Exciter101

Does wearing of ring on either hand finger mean anything?
Like wear right hand index finger, any meaning?
Or wear lift hand index finger?
Hope u can shed some light.
Many thks.

doesnt actually mean much now in the new generations. but according to customs, normally is 男左女右

[Exciter101]

Originally Posted by vmtech

doesnt actually mean much now in the new generations. but according to customs, normally is 男左女右

What i heard from some bros here is that it is not necessarily mean that...
Kinda confused....

[Peter_North]

Originally Posted by vmtech

doesnt actually mean much now in the new generations. but according to customs, normally is 男左女右

It's the finger nearest to your last finger that counts. Now the issue is left hand or right hand.

For marriage, regardless of male or female, it's always on the left hand. If a girl wears one on the right hand, it means she is engaged.

However, some or in fact many don't understand the significance, so they may just suka suka wear anywhere.