Bros need Advised , i in love with a Viet ktv girl

[question1999]

Bros need advise pls help

got to know this girl around Sept this year, she told me that she like me and of cos i like her too, she say she want to be my girlfriend , so i just agree,
and we been going out quite a few times on weekends only,so far i have only spend $250 her bringing her out.

she will always sms me in the morning and night saying "darling she miss me","Wo xiang ni" etc etc
so i too begin to fall in love with her but just yesterday night , at the ktv , i was playing with her iphone when i saw a customer sms her , i happen to see the sms and she was also calling the customer "darling" also. the sms is more or less the same that she always send me ,one of my bros told me that if i look at another angle , if she dun used this type of way to "PR" how is she going to bring the customer back to her ?.


My Question is What i`m i going to do ?
1. she told me she love me but she's calling other people "darling"
2. i planning to go vietnam to visit her family , should i still go?
3 should i let go of this relationship?


PLs advise bros

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by question1999

Bros need advise pls help

Should be "Need ADVICE...". "Advise" is a verb.

If you want her to call you "darling" more often and miss you intensely, all you need to do is pay her more money than the other guys and you'll automatically be moved up the pecking order.

[Mr_don_juan]

LOVE is a lie invented by her to make you do want she want. get this to your head. You can continue pine, dream, sweat, fantasise and generally drool over her while she goes fucking with other guys. You want to be in exclusive relationship with her, give her more money until you are burned.. if she not making your life a paradise give up the relationship and give that customer a chance to taste her first blood

[beachboyz]

TS since you have seen her sms you and you also say that she is using this "darling i miss you", "good morning darling" sms thing to bring customers back to her then you should know that she's also doing the same thing to you.

She just wants your business or some other material gain never mind that you only spend $250 now she just casting her net and see what fishes will swim into it big or small.

A piece of advice play along if you want but dun put too much heart into it

[PoundIt]

i can only say it's the same story on different people...
some girls are in for the money, some for security, some just for the sake of getting a PR, some wants everything and leave you dry.

[Arucard]

darling good morning can be sent to massive people through sms........try using special...nickname (like your name end with kang.....then kangkang...hahaha) see how long can she last using that everyday...hahaha

[OkoBoko]

Originally Posted by question1999

she will always sms me in the morning and night saying "darling she miss me","Wo xiang ni" etc etc
was playing with her iphone when i saw a customer sms her , i happen to see the sms and she was also calling the customer "darling" also. the sms is more or less the same that she always send me ,one of my bros told me that if i look at another angle , if she dun used this type of way to "PR" how is she going to bring the customer back to her ?.

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Visit more ktvs and you will get used to it. My advice for you.

[alan0338]

Originally Posted by question1999

My Question is What i`m i going to do ?
1. she told me she love me but she's calling other people "darling"
2. i planning to go vietnam to visit her family , should i still go?
3 should i let go of this relationship?
PLs advise bros.

1. she told me she love me but she's calling other people "darling"
answer: trust her whole heartedly when she tell you that she love you and its her job to call others darling.

2. i planning to go vietnam to visit her family , should i still go?
answer: of cos go la, meeting future in laws is a must, but remember bring more $$$
3 should i let go of this relationship?
answer: no no no, why on earth would you want to let go of a relationship when you are meant for each other.

[demonhunter]

$250 is cheap leh .... can tell me which KTV and number ???

i check her out for u and see if she's worth it .

[nokia88]

You know her for 1 mth and fall in love ??

Wait for the next gift she ask you buy .

Should be iphone 4/laptop or gold .

"Darling my phone spoilt can we go shopping for a new iphone4 ??"
"Darling i need a laptop to MSN my parents"

[lancome]

TS,
1, ask her to call you horny, or lao gong la, instead darling
2. you should go to know more
3. should not let go now, if you find she fuck around behind you yourself then it is time to let go

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by question1999

Bros need advise pls help

got to know this girl around Sept this year, she told me that she like me and of cos i like her too, she say she want to be my girlfriend , so i just agree,
and we been going out quite a few times on weekends only,so far i have only spend $250 her bringing her out.

she will always sms me in the morning and night saying "darling she miss me","Wo xiang ni" etc etc
so i too begin to fall in love with her but just yesterday night , at the ktv , i was playing with her iphone when i saw a customer sms her , i happen to see the sms and she was also calling the customer "darling" also. the sms is more or less the same that she always send me ,one of my bros told me that if i look at another angle , if she dun used this type of way to "PR" how is she going to bring the customer back to her ?.


My Question is What i`m i going to do ?
1. she told me she love me but she's calling other people "darling"
2. i planning to go vietnam to visit her family , should i still go?
3 should i let go of this relationship?

PLs advise bros

Rule Number 1 : They come here to work ...NOT find boyfriend ....

Rule Number 2 : They play ... you play along too ....

Rule Number 3 : Time will Tell ... if you can play along ... and got $$$ to spare ....

Rule Number 4 : Only You Yourself know what's happening ... GO or NO GO .. it depends on YOU ...


Anyway .....

WHY you want to Visit Her Family ??????????????

She allows you to visit them ?????????

[joew2005]

now she didn't suck yr $ big time doesn't imply tat she wouldn't do it later.
1st month make u spend 250 is a good start .....
later she might ask $ fr u 2 buy motorbike back home ..... or $ 2 renovate her house .....

if u intend 2 go viet 2 visit her family, suggest u do it w/o any pre-warning 2 her.
In tat way,she wouldn't be able 2 do everything nice nice 4 u 2 see only.

Whether 2 let go or not, it's up 2 u .... it's yr life & u decide 4 yrself.
u r answerable 4 all yr own actions,not the bros who gave u advices here.

[big wood]

bro if u has money to burn why not no pain no gain if u dont try wait u regret

[redstorm]

Giving my 2 cents worth, as someone who took the plunge and is about to marry a Vietnam lady.

First of all, she is not a WL and has never been to Singapore. Despite that, the initial period was very bad, as I would constantly be torn between is she lying to me, or is she sincere?

Bro, at the end of the day, i likened this situation to a war:

There are always 2 sides in a War. Side A and Side B. Side A = Trust her 100%, she is sincere and Side B = She is fake. Like a real war, you need to choose a side - you cannot stand in the middle and be a 2 headed snake (Aka trust her 50%, doubt her 50%)

Pick your side, and never look back. For me, I choose Side A and never again did i doubt her.

Bro, at the end of the day, only YOU will know how she treats you, what she told you, the way she strokes your hair while telling I love you. We cannot be the judge. However, my advice is if you decide to trust her 100%, you must be prepared to lose everything.

For example: if you commit 10k to her (marriage etc) and you decide to trust her 100%, be prepared to lose this 10k.

Anyway, good luck to you