Marrying A Thai ger

[Nonteerak2553]

Originally Posted by yinyang

Oh, hope for you it's not other way around. Chok dee (and chai yen)

Thanks for the luck wish. To me, I and my gf, we break even, both of us shouted at each other, so as to say she hate being shouted at, in any case that may make her lose face, so do I. We come to conclusion last week that we should talk nicely to each other instead of shouting even how angry we are as I mention to her, she need to change her attitude, if let say fate permits us to be together. But changing her atittude is another big problem.

[Triple-X]

Originally Posted by dyelook

bro Triple-X..
let's put it this way... ur in Singapore and your ex-gf wants to go out leaving you sleeping alone... how are you going to feel? let alone you and your ex-gf in PATTAYA(so many pretty girls preying on tourists) & you've been only together for 2 months... IMHO any girls will throw trantum loh...

khor thot na...

hahaha bro,the twist is that she asked me to go out drink cos she wanted to stay and sleep cos we've been out the whole day.And i said ok,i'll stay and accompany u,she rejected outright,ask me go ahead and beforehand we didnt quarrel or anything.Now i think of it,i would say the real reason behind this is she aint so in love with me afterall,wahaha Which lady in love with u will not be so worry as to let u go out alone drinking,flirting outside huh? :P

[Triple-X]

Originally Posted by Nonteerak2553

Thanks for the luck wish. To me, I and my gf, we break even, both of us shouted at each other, so as to say she hate being shouted at, in any case that may make her lose face, so do I. We come to conclusion last week that we should talk nicely to each other instead of shouting even how angry we are as I mention to her, she need to change her attitude, if let say fate permits us to be together. But changing her atittude is another big problem.

Bro,u shouldnt try changing her attitude.Remember u can never change a person's character.Either u adjust to it or u leave it.chok dee kup!

[Peter_North]

Originally Posted by Nonteerak2553

Pii Peter_North,

Based on your input I have read in this thread, seem you are very experience in thai relationship. And you learnt your PASA THAI from isaan native. Does your thai girlfriend or wife from isaan province? If you don't mind me being busybody. 555+

Yes, you're a busybody, indeed

I live in Thailand, that much I can reveal.

[Nonteerak2553]

Originally Posted by Triple-X

Bro,u shouldnt try changing her attitude.Remember u can never change a person's character.Either u adjust to it or u leave it.chok dee kup!

I will try to accommodate with her attitude by every possible means. Otherwise I just prepare to lose a look alike PANCAKE, which I doesn't want it to happen any time future. Thanks for the luck wish.

[Nonteerak2553]

Originally Posted by Peter_North

Yes, you're a busybody, indeed

I live in Thailand, that much I can reveal.

555+ No wonder you are so familiarize with Thai womans character

[dyelook]

bro's... any more new topics? feeling bored here

khor rian tam a-rai puyin thai mai dee... khorb khun krup...

[Triple-X]

Originally Posted by Nonteerak2553

I will try to accommodate with her attitude by every possible means. Otherwise I just prepare to lose a look alike PANCAKE, which I doesn't want it to happen any time future. Thanks for the luck wish.

hehehe bro,np.i would suggest u try to think of her good points rather than bad everytime u want to blow.its human nature to think of the other party bad points,not good everytime.Thinking too much about their bad points will indeed make u blowoff.Thats y all Thais have those mai-pen-rai attitude la,where got see them blowoff so often 1? 555

[Javanoob]

Originally Posted by Nonteerak2553

555+ No wonder you are so familiarize with Thai womans character

bro, seriously why keep compare singapore and thai ? to me they are just woman.
u mean u scold your sg gf in her house, she wont throw face and get angry ? only thai do ?
as for family bonds, yes, thai are more bonded to their family. but when you are her family, its da same.

i mean this world is big, some pple are lidat, some pple are not. there is no general classification of oh she thai, so she is lidat, oh she is sgrean so she is lidat.

if you ask me, why treat your thai gf like alien ? just treat her like ur local sg gf. if she's behaving incorrectly, just f her like how u will f ur sg gf.

you have to be in control. not guessing if you want the relationship to go on. because guessing is a weak trait for a guy in relationship.
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dun panic because she look like taeng mo, there are still aum , kratae, panward around.. yea..

[Nonteerak2553]

Pii Javanoob,
There're comparison between thai and sg ladies when in the relationship, no doubt all are ladies, but it's their upbringing and culture makes them diff from the local ladies.

Due to my experience, I always don't have any problem when I scolded my ex gf, but of course when the make silly mistake, but when come to thai either you shut your mouth or prepare to quarrel with them when you intend to correct their silly mistake. But again is it not everytime when ever I correct my current gf mistake, then an argue takes place, but I can say 3 out of 10 there always bound to argue when ever I tired to correct her silly mistake. I believe it's all because of ones proper upbringing.
Lastly she doesn't look like the model actress taengmo,but have similar look like pancake But if let say I have such luck to date taengmo or aum or Pei out, why not, provided if I'm back to singlehood.

[Nonteerak2553]

Originally Posted by Triple-X

hehehe bro,np.i would suggest u try to think of her good points rather than bad everytime u want to blow.its human nature to think of the other party bad points,not good everytime.Thinking too much about their bad points will indeed make u blowoff.Thats y all Thais have those mai-pen-rai attitude la,where got see them blowoff so often 1? 555

Agree with you pii, but those "mai pren rai" attitude my gf seldom used it on me, instead me use it on her everytime. 555+

[Javanoob]

Originally Posted by Nonteerak2553

Pii Javanoob,
There're comparison between thai and sg ladies when in the relationship, no doubt all are ladies, but it's their upbringing and culture makes them diff from the local ladies.

Due to my experience, I always don't have any problem when I scolded my ex gf, but of course when the make silly mistake, but when come to thai either you shut your mouth or prepare to quarrel with them when you intend to correct their silly mistake. But again is it not everytime when ever I correct my current gf mistake, then an argue takes place, but I can say 3 out of 10 there always bound to argue when ever I tired to correct her silly mistake. I believe it's all because of ones proper upbringing.
Lastly she doesn't look like the model actress taengmo,but have similar look like pancake But if let say I have such luck to date taengmo or aum or Pei out, why not, provided if I'm back to singlehood.

hi bro, yea u make a point. their upbringing is different from us. but that make all the point to correct their thinking unless you intend to adapt to theirs.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Nonteerak2553

Pii Javanoob,
There're comparison between thai and sg ladies when in the relationship, no doubt all are ladies, but it's their upbringing and culture makes them diff from the local ladies.

It also depends on how the man treats the ger. For me, I have various nationality gers b4. I don't quarrel or argue with them. I will just keep quiet and they know my temper when I blow up, so they normally will auto stop. End of the day, I just reason and sweet talk with them, everything will be fine

[Javanoob]

Originally Posted by naemlo

It also depends on how the man treats the ger. For me, I have various nationality gers b4. I don't quarrel or argue with them. I will just keep quiet and they know my temper when I blow up, so they normally will auto stop. End of the day, I just reason and sweet talk with them, everything will be fine

bro naemlo,

please tell me, i cant help but notice your signature.
it is a song of a lyric, or you write out yourself

[Nonteerak2553]

Originally Posted by Javanoob

hi bro, yea u make a point. their upbringing is different from us. but that make all the point to correct their thinking unless you intend to adapt to theirs.

Adapting to their culture is no problem to me, and I already learnt alot of thing about their shocking culture, but if asking me to adapt to their everyday of life's or their problem solving is a BIG NO NO to me.