Marrying A Thai ger

[norice]

Hello,

In Thailand, thousands of married women doesn't wear wedding rings and attractive girls with boyfriends doesn't wear rings like western ladies so it's very confusing! You really can't tell if Thai girls/ladies are single or not! So, lets use our brain and experience, how can we tell if Thai ladies are available for foreigners like us?

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

Yalor, as long she is not wearing a ring on the wedding finger, then 50% chance she is single!

now aday girls also wear wedding finger lei that does not mean she is marry also mah.

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by Exciter101

What i heard from some bros here is that it is not necessarily mean that...
Kinda confused....

lol there is nothing to confuse about. so what u see her wearing rings be it silver, gold or diamond rings. does it mean anything on which finger she wear and even she wear on the wedding finger can we said that she is married?

as what vm said new generation pple now a days dont care. in singapore i see most girls wear on the wedding finger but still single and married woman dont wear ring at all does that mean she not married?

well there is a way but depend she whether she report to her amper about her marriage. if she do then 2 things u can see. if i remember cleary first her household book will change to mrs and her ic will change to mrs.

Thai IC and passport are renew every 5 years.

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by norice

Hello,

In Thailand, thousands of married women doesn't wear wedding rings and attractive girls with boyfriends doesn't wear rings like western ladies so it's very confusing! You really can't tell if Thai girls/ladies are single or not! So, lets use our brain and experience, how can we tell if Thai ladies are available for foreigners like us?

sad to said we never will know by checking unless u get close to her. she can tell u she is single and got no bf or husband. it up to u to believe her. even u are very close to her that does not mean u get the true answer also.

i assume u are a farang? be it a farang or asian. just dont forget one thing we are Foreigner in thailand hehehe so open ur eyes and ears big big.

[yinyang]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

sad to said we never will know by checking unless u get close to her. she can tell u she is single and got no bf or husband. it up to u to believe her. even u are very close to her that does not mean u get the true answer also....be it a farang or asian. just dont forget one thing we are Foreigner in thailand hehehe so open ur eyes and ears big big.

Agree, well said (personally vouch for this). As I also mentioned in other bkk thread -there's also passive lies ie suppressing truth: what you don't know don't hurt And not just limited to marriage status, if I may add

well there is a way but depend she whether she report to her amper about her marriage. if she do then 2 things u can see. if i remember cleary first her household book will change to mrs and her ic will change to mrs.

Right, passport show marital "mrs".

PM72, see I not just engage in cheeky tcss with or suan you Yours is straight advice

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by yinyang

PM72, see I not just engage in cheeky tcss with or suan you Yours is straight advice

lol YY we like ying yang lei. we book fl close to each others time lol now even posting u are close to me lei. hehehehe

oh mean if i tcss u suan me liao lor never mind heheheh u are ying i yang how

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by yinyang

Agree, well said (personally vouch for this). As I also mentioned in other bkk thread -there's also passive lies ie suppressing truth: what you don't know don't hurt And not just limited to marriage status, if I may add
Right, passport show marital "mrs".

Master YY, had enough papaya pok pok to gather such info.
Jokes aside, some gals got married ceremoniously but without any legal document to prove. ie marriage is not recognized by the law but people and relatives all know she is married to this guy. So theoretically she is married but legally she is not. This is a common practice in Thailand among some of hi-so classes, this is to safe guard against the richer ones to a certain extend.

[yinyang]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

...had enough papaya pok pok to gather such info. ..married ceremoniously but without any legal document to prove. ie marriage is not recognized by the law but people and relatives all know she is married to this guy. So theoretically she is married but legally she is not. This is a common practice in Thailand among some of hi-so classes, this is to safe guard against the richer ones to a certain extend.

Another good insight. So bro Norikasan, are you now more confused (or scared)? Going back to school to tackle your childhood sweetheart maybe your only way out liao... poot leng (only joking), na.

Bro Ocean11, so perceptive ... factual intel from my dalliance with ex ldtr and few side dishes. I lived to tell, kekeke

[Peter_North]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

Hahaha.. looks like identifying single girls is as hard as identifying trans!

I think its kind of scary since they might be married but they can tell us they are not!

Who the hell will go around showing their ID card or passport?

Even if the girls ONS with you, that doesn't mean she is single also!

I think the best is...... lets all go back to school and study!

Norice, how about you retired in Thailand, you just go and study in any college or thai local uni as a self enhance learning? From there you can get to know alot of nice young girls which probably are single!!! Or maybe if you are qualified enough can become their teacher!!! OMC~ The bangkokpost reported farang teacher married their student become a trend in Thailand. Okok enough of jokes.

It's not exclusive to Thailand. Singapore women are just as much guilty.

The issue is not if she doesn't wear a ring she is single. It's more about if she wears one, then it's likely she is not single. At least you can sift out the irrelevant ones from start and not having to waste more money or time.

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

Hahaha.. looks like identifying single girls is as hard as identifying trans!

I think its kind of scary since they might be married but they can tell us they are not!

Who the hell will go around showing their ID card or passport?

Even if the girls ONS with you, that doesn't mean she is single also!

I think the best is...... lets all go back to school and study!

Norice, how about you retired in Thailand, you just go and study in any college or thai local uni as a self enhance learning? From there you can get to know alot of nice young girls which probably are single!!! Or maybe if you are qualified enough can become their teacher!!! OMC~ The bangkokpost reported farang teacher married their student become a trend in Thailand. Okok enough of jokes.

lol provided we know how to read thai even they show us their doc. as one bro just said in thailand most pple dont rom or registered in amper so there is still no way to know if she married.

i do agree on this cos to them rom or no rom is not important. most important it is recong. by the parents, relative and thier villiage that she is married to this person in the villiage.

getting more confuse lei hehehehhe

[vmtech]

in the city of bangkok, it's prolly much easier den in the provinces. IMHO
the amphur is so near, in bangkok , they can just pop in and register anytime they want to and it'll cost u no more den 500thb for eveyrthing. haaha.

Even my marriage cert can be photoshopped if i wanted too lol.

since this thread is about marriage, here's how the cert looks like in orginal. and if you want to have it certified and translated so it's recognised in sg, it looks like this.

original


translated certified true copy stamped by SG Emb

[xilverzap]

WoW WoW Vmtech

Nice attachement!! Sweet!!

[Exciter101]

Thanks for showing us the cert.
Now at least we know how it looks like.
Thks bro.

[norice]

Brothers,

This is an excellent forum, I'm learning alot! What if I met an attractive Thai girl for possible longterm relationship, do I have to marry her? If I just tell her that I want you to be my permanent longterm girlfriend and I will take care of you for rest of your life but I don't want to marry you. What is your opinion regarding my proposal? Would Thai girls accept my proposal or do they want permanent committment?

I've heard so many horror stories when foreigner tried to breakup their relationship with a Thai girl. I guess, don't make a hasty decision when you decide to get married! Does Thai girls accept long engagement?

I did extensive research in budgeting for fooling around in Bangkok, If I have a llived-in female companion, her usual going rate for monthly salary will be approximately 20,000 to 30,000 per month. As a butterfly, I will be spending approximately 40,000 to 50,000 per month, which consist of going to soapys, gogos, gel/lotion massage, FLs, and karaokes. I have several friends in Bangkok and Pattaya that pays 20,000 to 30,000 per month to their lived-in girlfriends. But their girlfriends were fomer gogo dancers! My longterm girlfriend will be 110% nonworking girls!

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

I doubt educated girls in thailand is willing to so call marry someone without official paper done up, maybe like you said those girls from bar and soapies don't mind afterall they just want pp to takecare of them and give them money.

To the thais they dont really care about rom it just a paper to them. what they want is the custom married. to them this is the actual legal thing there.

only those that marry non thai then maybe they will go sign paper with them. reason being they wanna go oversea and stay with their hubby.

normal or working girls are the same. it makes no diff to them whether or not to sign the papers. i have decent, educated thai friends who family are quite wealth off. they too married without rom only custom married. to them this is very important.

a very good question is why do we need to rom in thailand when we can marry in our own country. one of the reason most of the pple wanna stay in thailand in the future.

especially farangs they love thailand and wants to stay there perm with the with the thai wife help. unlike last time we can rom and then throw in 15k sgd to the bank n show proved that we have 15k sgd in the bank every yr inorder to get a spouse visa. now no. min 40k baht per mth either ur wife is earning per mth or u had to show proved saying u have this income coming to u.

my dear's cousin marry a farang he from UK. to him he never go amper register he just did the custom married and that is it. he have plans to move that in the future once he save enough $$$. now every 6 mths he have to go back to uk n work 6mths b4 coming back n stay 6mth in the villiage.