Marrying A Thai ger

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

How I wish Thai girls treasured their bodies more sometimes.

Sad to said this sometime beyond what they wanna choose. i know one girl in my villiage. her family not well to do and she had to take care of her sister, mother and step father that cannot walk.

both the parents have lot of sickness and she had to take care the whole family. she came out n work as a WL 2 yrs ago. she cried alot of course season liao.

again i had to said she also got cheated by a my man when the man told her. he love her very much n wanna marry her. being green when just started in this line she fall for it n be with him after 6 mths of playing. he dump her.

she never ask for anything the girl only give her 10k baht a mth or less. to let her take care of her parents n sister.

anyway after 2 yrs of grill she is harden n wont take the words what the customers said to her. just pure customer. of course playing with words liao. see human talk human see ghost talk ghost.

during the 6mth when she was with the guy. she got preg and the guy dump her....

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by JWNY

sometimes i regret learning the Thai language. When i hear how some of the girls whisper sweet nothings to their faens...and their gigs are just beside them.

yes i do agree with u bro. my thai is not good but i do make up some words what they talk to their terak when they have a bf beside them.

bo bian i think most of us who being playing in thailand or other place should have seen it before.

i remember once i call a FL she was me in the room after making love the bf from my call her. she walk to one conner n talk. i was on the bed at that time.

tell bf she in room sleeping nothing to do waiting for him to come to thailand to visit her. said miss him alot love him very much kiss kiss here kiss kiss there.

i just keep quiet. after she hang up i just tell her she naughty kohor bf she at home but actual fact with me in hotel make love. she said no lar friend only next moment she just jump on the bed n give me a good one so that i wont ask so much.

for me i dont care n just carry on. i cannot control anything or tell the guy. just pity the guy cos he actually send her money every mth.

i dont really like to talk about WL or FL and label them as bad girls. there is good n bad one. also i do agree with u bros that i also discourage pple having relationship with WL or FL, i dont want them to get involve n later get hurt so badly. sad to said this will not happen. everyday or should i said every now n then we can see pple posting about their sad stories.

[theUnforgotten]

Let me put some objectivity back into this discussion,

Yes I do believe most of the points here discussed are valid, but have we considered that based on our empirical observations that most of the backgrounds of the Thai girls or women in the discussion invariably tend to come from WL/FL or ahem "night entertainment" scenes.

Have we ever wondered that most of the issues encountered are due to the circumstances of their work or previous line of work? Lets not be hasty in basing our observations of mostly thai WL/FL/Dance/Singer (past or present), this will lead to a skewed viewpoint.

As in any scientific observation there must be "control" group to compare n contrast , so as to make a rational observation. This "control" group may be normal thai girls who arent in any of this kind of night job .

Anyone here has such experiences to share too?

[Alkano]

Originally Posted by theUnforgotten

Yes I do believe most of the points here discussed are valid, but have we considered that based on our empirical observations that most of the backgrounds of the Thai girls or women in the discussion invariably tend to come from WL/FL or ahem "night entertainment" scenes.

What if they are of decent background and job?
And not WL, FL or night scene type of ppl.
Does that change the picture entirely?

[theUnforgotten]

Originally Posted by Alkano

What if they are of decent background and job?
And not WL, FL or night scene type of ppl.
Does that change the picture entirely?

There will still be issues, But will it be the same or different ? Just wonder if anyone here has such experience before.

Picture will have different scenery but it is not without problems too , i don't dispute that.

One point to note < their family is always no.1 , no matter what background they have. What kind of "adjustments" will we be willing to make to accommodate

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by theUnforgotten

There will still be issues, But will it be the same or different ? Just wonder if anyone here has such experience before.

Picture will have different scenery but it is not without problems too , i don't dispute that.

One point to note < their family is always no.1 , no matter what background they have. What kind of "adjustments" will we be willing to make to accommodate

what bro unforgtten said is also very true. it not just WL n FL that is why i said i dont like to use WL n FL as example but again the chances is higher then decent girls.

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by theUnforgotten

Have we ever wondered that most of the issues encountered are due to the circumstances of their work or previous line of work?
:
As in any scientific observation there must be "control" group to compare n contrast , so as to make a rational observation. This "control" group may be normal thai girls who arent in any of this kind of night job .

Anyone here has such experiences to share too?

Coz this is SBF bah, most of the experiences here are from samsters and we falls in a certain "group". Will be rare to find the other control group around here

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by mao86

guys..here goes my story...

i noe this gurl at geylang lah...
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Then we both develop feelings for each other loh..
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we went back to thailand,bangkok wif her to @@ her siblings and parents..
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the brother tok to mi that my gf gt a daughter in bangkok and he is taking care of her..at that time i was quite shock lah..but then bo bian love her so i accept the fact loh..Besides that i promise the brother that i will love her and take care daughter 2gather. The brother was so touch then he cry and hug mi.. so funi
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i cry so much while staring at the stars thinking that i make a very very big mistake..
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That dae she still call mi say baby sick nid $$... then i send her also...cos i still love her abit.. then at the back say nid $$ again..
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Guys i tell u all lah.. nw i also abit scare thai gurl le.. i still love her a bit but she no good lyk tat loh...
and u all noe i spent alot for my trip in bangkok....n i neber even buy aniting

Bro, thanks for sharing your story, which is super classic siah!

Any skeptics here will tell u straight that "brother" is actually her hubby and he cried becoz that's their daughter!

It's ok lor, sounds like the damage done is not too much for you to bear.

Good to know it's over (or izit?) and that bit of tears you shed is for the better tomorrow. Next time, shedule a trip up to BKK just to have fun and being wiser now, enjoy your next trip

[nael]

Anyone here know how to marry A girl whom is Thai race but is from Myanmar in Singapore? I may need to seek for any solutions or ideas? I am run short of solution actually.

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

i remember once i call a FL she was me in the room after making love the bf from my call her. she walk to one conner n talk. i was on the bed at that time.

tell bf she in room sleeping nothing to do waiting for him to come to thailand to visit her. said miss him alot love him very much kiss kiss here kiss kiss there.

I also got such experiences - on BOTH sides.

On the side where I'm like u, waiting on the bed to fug her while she yak away on the phone with her bf/tirak/etc at one corner; I play jealous, got "angry" and jio her to delele all those phone numbers since she's supposed to be serious about me. After that, such incidents reduced drastically but I still find a few call logs occasionally which she can't explain.

Then on the other side, where I'm the tirak calling her from Sg, getting that kiss kiss here and miss you that treatment; I do get suspicious at times but what to do right?

One fine day when I was with her, this one guy called and she hastily hang up after talking in thai. She knows my thai is limited, but heck I still can make out that she told him that she's "with her BF, so can't talk now". I immediately check the number and it was from Sg...

That's where I found out after interrogation that she know this Sg guy at a disco, gave her# and that guy called her and they met a 2 more times... once at a group gathering of her friends (thai ppl like to gather at someone's house to cook kuey-tiao and chit-chat), and another time went out for movie before that guy go back Sg. And guess what? During those occasions, I've been calling her (got those kiss here and miss that treatment too)

I was furious, needless to say. If she can ask a guy to cum over to her friend's house for makan, probably to show off her new found bf, how far off can she be about cheating me right? Somemore, go movie the next day...

Long story short (oredi quite long ), I initiate a break-off with her that day. What liao, all hell break loose and that's where she threaten to jump off the building if I do. All her friends sort of "gang up" to help her talk to me; track me down and the whole freaking group, 6 of them, cum all the way to meet me outside and chat...

Thai ppl are all very united man... not only among family but friends. Of course they can all be helping her to cheat me further, but that's another point.

Ya man, once trust is gone, especially for long distance r/s, it really sucks to maintain after that

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by nael

Anyone here know how to marry A girl whom is Thai race but is from Myanmar in Singapore? I may need to seek for any solutions or ideas? I am run short of solution actually.

Ask vmtech!

One of my tirak also a tai-yat... holding Myanmar p/p but they think they are thai ppl, if not for those historic wars around the borders.

[Alkano]

Originally Posted by rapebill

call her and talk about the weather etc
before leading to the real issue.
then just hear her entirely out on her inputs on the $$$ issue

Ist contact has been made...
KNN...dun know why so kan choing....
It is only a simple call....
Anyway manage to resolve a few issues but the rest will be solve once her problem with $$ is solved too...haiz...
This put me into the pic again....
The main reason why she can't reply is she has not pay her mobile phone bill yet. waiting for me to "save" her......
And the story goes on and on.......

[Charmaine]

Is it just me or are Thais overly defensive when it comes to "interrogation sessions"?

I innocently asked if she was texting other people when the credits I bought for her have been used up pretty quickly (500 baht of credit finished within a week; tell me that's fast!) and she blew her top. She called me childish and didn't want to talk to me after that. I'm positive it's a legitimate complaint. Why try so hard to be angry unless you've got something to hide?

[JWNY]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

Is it just me or are Thais overly defensive when it comes to "interrogation sessions"?

I innocently asked if she was texting other people when the credits I bought for her have been used up pretty quickly (500 baht of credit finished within a week; tell me that's fast!) and she blew her top. She called me childish and didn't want to talk to me after that. I'm positive it's a legitimate complaint. Why try so hard to be angry unless you've got something to hide?

People, in general, do not like to be questioned - it gives them the impression we doubt them. Thai girls are no differents. They don't like invasion into their "spaces" ~ and tell you what, their Thai spouses, bfs and even friends don't do it. They're quite nonchalant about these things.

Have to disagree with your statement, "...i innocently asked..." . Charmaine, my bro, you knew exactly what you wanted to ask but maybe was not sure what kind of response you would receive or expect. To them, nothing is a problem until it is a problem.

JWNY

[Charmaine]

[QUOTE=JWNY;2796396]People, in general, do not like to be questioned - it gives them the impression we doubt them. Thai girls are no differents. They don't like invasion into their "spaces" ~ and tell you what, their Thai spouses, bfs and even friends don't do it. They're quite nonchalant about these things.

Have to disagree with your statement, "...i innocently asked..." . Charmaine, my bro, you knew exactly what you wanted to ask but maybe was not sure what kind of response you would receive or expect. To them, nothing is a problem until it is a problem.

JWNY[/QUOTE

So I'm supposed to sweep everything under the carpet even though the suspense is killing me?

Would I do well to apologise? We haven't talked since - it's our first big fight since we got to know each other 9 months ago. I feel she is really offended by my insinuation. But I just don't feel right "ignoring" these obvious suspicions.